Putting
Romance Back Into Your
Marriage
by:
Mark
McAuley
Let me start by saying I
am not a psycholigist or
therapist, I am just a guy,
who was married for 16
years, until that ended
about a year and a half ago.
I am now in a new and
exciting relationship, which
I believe will work out
great. I am forty years old
and just speaking from
experience. Hopefully these
tips I give you will spice
up your love life again.
Often times in a marriage
or long-term relationship,
couples tend to fall into a
routine. What maybe started
out as a very romantic
relationship, begins to slow
down as bills, children,
work and all the pressures
of life conspire to give us
stress and lead us away from
what is really important.
I would venture to guess
that most divorces stem from
this problem. You see each
other As a business partner,
parenting partner, chore
partner. But not so much as
a lover. You have to drive
the kids here and there,
while your partner is
getting the groceries. There
is always something to
do,and it usually does not
include being alone with
your partner.
Every once in a while you
remember what it was like in
the beginning, and think why
can’t it be like that again.
By the way, both sexes think
this, the problem is they
only think it, and usually
don’t talk about it.
When the kids are small,
I know it isn’t as easy to
make time for each other,
but the most important thing
you can do for your marriage
is to MAKE time. If that
means getting grandma and
grandpa to watch the kids
overnight, or splurging on a
babysitter once a week, it
would be the best investment
you could make in your
marriage.
If you could get away
with your partner for a date
night once a week, you won’t
regret it. Whether going out
for dinner, or a movie, or a
long walk together, it will
bring the two of you closer
together. Plus, getting away
from the kids is a great
stress reliever.
Then when you get back
home, still with no kids
around, a great way to spice
things up in the bedroom, is
with lingerie. It may sound
cliché, but it really works.
Think about it ladies, your
partner sees you all week as
a mom, housekeeper,
breadwinner. The last thing
he is thinking of you as, is
a bedroom goddess. Believe
me, if you come home after a
nice night out, and you go
upstairs and put on a
beautiful piece of lingerie,
a nice teddy, or corset,
body stocking, or bustier,
you’re partner will
definitely be put into the
mood.
It will make him see you
as he used to see you. More
than a mom, etc. After all,
isn’t that what you want?
But, don’t stop there. A
great way to spice things up
is to try things you never
tried before. That could be
something as simple as
bringing some food into the
mix, you know strawberries,
whip cream, things like
that. Then, there is always
the massage, everybody loves
a massage with warm oil.
Just the fact you are doing
things differently will
really help spice things up.
We all know that we fall
into a routine in the
bedroom after a while. The
only cure for that is to
change things around.
So, hopefully this will
help you to get back on the
right track. Good luck.
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